peeps that know about privacy feature

[RexTripod]

my g/f uses that privacy feature "allow only users on my buddy list"..and I have 2 screen names but only one that i use to talk to her so obviously that ONE screen name i can only use to see if she is online...i dont like staying online with that ONE name...of course with my other screen name i cant see if she is online because obviously that other name isnt on her list....is there a way for me to be invisible to her even though she uses "allow only users on my buddy list"

[Michael]

Just give her both your screen names and tell her to add them to your list. (Sometimes the simplest solution is the best one.)

[RexTripod]

Just give her both your screen names and tell her to add them to your list. (Sometimes the simplest solution is the best one.)

i know what you mean but i cant because i used to use my #2 screen name to see if she would sign back on but this was because she didnt have ''allow only users on my buddy list " since now she has that option i cant find out if she signs online, but i dont want to use my #1 screenname ....understand??

edit--she doesnt know about #2 screenname

[sn0n]

maybe its an imaginary girlfriend.. cuz i know my girlfriend has my SN'z.. and hell.. when i see her in person i could give her my other.. or if i wasnt goin to see her.. id email her.. ::sigh::

[Michael]

i know what you mean but i cant because i used to use my #2 screen name to see if she would sign back on but this was because she didnt have ''allow only users on my buddy list " since now she has that option i cant find out if she signs online, but i dont want to use my #1 screenname ....understand??

edit--she doesnt know about #2 screenname

The lack of trust between boyfriend and girlfriend always amazes me. People go to such great lengths to spy on their loved ones online.